Umzekeliso lomshado kwabasha. Wedding siyakuhalalisela kanye toast

Lapho benza isiko kwakulibiza mfanekiso ngesikhathi samaholidi, kodwa awuphenduli akekho. Le ndlela yokufundisa yaziwa ngoba emakhulwini amaningi eminyaka, kodwa, nokho, namanje azigcina ngokuhlathulula ukusebenza kwawo, ngoba ukuletha into kumuntu usebenzisa izithombe ngokucace nezibonelo ezithile, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi nehaba, lula kunalokho amaqiniso kwamehlisa. Umzekeliso lomshado wayengomncane kunabo bonke e imfanelo efanayo esiyisibopho umshado ikhekhe lokuzalwa kanye dance lokuqala. Ngokuvamile, kuzwakala emlonyeni nabazali bengane ababe kwaze kwaba sekufeni kwakhe kukhona othisha nabeluleki bezingane zabo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi bangafundisa abashadayo into yokucocobalisa. Yiziphi ngemifanekiso, kungcono ukukhuluma ngani? Sizophenya.

ngokuhlakanipha Eastern

Ngokuvamile, lapho abantu ukukhuluma ngezimfundiso ngesikhathi imikhosi ezifika engqondweni ubhontshisi Oriental, ngokuvamile ukuqala ngamazwi athi "Somewhere phezulu ezintabeni." Yingakho Ngithanda ukuqala ngokuhlakanipha asempumalanga.

IzAga for umshado abazali abasha ngokuvamile afundisa ngendlela okumelwe aziphathe ngayo ukuba umndeni, indlela yokwakha ubudlelwano phakathi abashadayo. Nansi enye okufana ezithakazelisayo ngale mfundiso:

"Ngolunye usuku Sultan wabuza wathi:" Bheka, imingcele yakho njalo izitha, isimo kwesinye isikhathi kungangenzeki isinkwa kokwanele kokondla wonke umuntu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo azikho iziphazamiso. Kanjani ukuphatha ukugcina ukuthula nokuzola? ". Ukuze okuyinto Bishop waphendula emomotheka: "Lapho mina uphume ngokwami - abantu bami ithule lapho abangajabule - Ngingumfana ezolile. Ngamanye amazwi, baduduza mina, futhi ngiyinika kubo. " Kunoma yimuphi umkhaya - ke iyizwe elincane, nge ukuhleleka nokusebenzelana ukwabiwa kwezibophezelo. Ngakho ake futhi esimweni sakho uhlale ukugcina ukuthula nokuzola. "

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Ngezinye izikhathi siyakuhalalisela eside futhi obungathi sina singalimaza akhathale esanda kushada engenaso isineke. Ngakho kudingeka ucabange mayelana lokuthi emzekelisweni abasha emshadweni kwaba esifushane, kodwa capacious. Kulokhu, ungasebenzisa ukubhekisela izikhathi ezikude.

"Igama elithi" womshado ", njengoba besho, iza kithi ezivela olimini lwesiGreki sakuqala. Kuyamangalisa ukuthi lisho izinkabi amahanisi. Uma uthi nhlá akucaci ukuthi kungani umkhaya abasha ufaniswa izilwane ezithwalayo, kodwa eqinisweni kungcono elula. Lo mbhangqwana, kanye nezinkomo, kufanele lube amahanisi efanayo, edonsa ndawonye ordinariness wokuphila komkhaya futhi uphumule ndawonye. Ngakho kwangathi wena kuyohlale kukhona. "

ngoba kumnandi

Yini lomshado ngaphandle amahlaya? Emfanekisweni Ngokuvamile funny mayelana uthando umshado iDemo - bona alulaze ubukhazikhazi celebration touch of fun bangempela. Nasi isibonelo esisodwa:

"Ukuze uthole pair asekhulile ezicijile idayimane lomshado. Yiqiniso, babuzwa ukuthi zakwazi kanjani ukumelana nokuphila isikhathi eside eshadile ezinjalo. Ukuze lapho umyeni waphendula kwakuyiyo yonke ngenxa embhedeni owodwa lapho balala: ngisho ngemuva kwengxabano ababenakho ngizigone kuze kube nomunye ebusuku. Ngakho ake futhi lokhu komkhaya kuyoba embhedeni ewumngcingo, oqinisekisa kubo eside, umshado ojabulisayo. "

Ezandleni zakho

Emfanekisweni Beautiful emshadweni bangabonisa ngokuyisimangaliso ukushintsha isimo izivakashi kanye abasanda kushada. Ngemva ngokunqoba amagama akhulunywa kungase wedwa phansi isikhashana ezindla ngawo, futhi mhlawumbe lena umgomo obaluleke kakhulu noma iyiphi imfundiso - ukwenza uyazibuza.

Kukhona omunye odumile kakhulu tremulous, nakuba kancane indaba edabukisayo. "Ku-ekupheleni ezikude wayeyindoda ekwazi kahle konke, konke, ngisho bangaki zezulu. Ngolunye usuku wafika nomunye umbhangqwana osemusha, ifemu ekhetha ukufakazela ukuthi akuyona yonke into kungenziwa ezaziwayo. Umyeni wakhe ayekuphethe aboshezelwa butterfly: 'Uma umuntu wathi esaphila - abasha eyayiyochoboza ke; uma kufikwe - wayengeke adedele inundu. Lapho bacela ukuthi kufihlwe ezandleni zakhe, indoda ehlakaniphile waphendula emomotheka afihla kuwo uvemvane. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzokwenza noma vyporhnet ukuze ukhothamele ku utshani - incike kubo. Injabulo yomkhaya, efana butterfly ethambile, kuphela ezandleni zakho. "

Ake aphuze ukuze ...

Siyakuhalalisela ukugujwa noma kunjalo kakhulu. izifiso okuyisidina injabulo, impilo kungenziwa buhlanjululwe a ubhontshisi kulo mzekeliso lomshado. Ungakwazi pick up njengoba uyindaba engathí sina eziyizixwayiso, nento kulula futhi kumnandi more - lokho ngokuqinisekile ukhunjulwa izivakashi.

"Leso kwaba esinye isigodlo salowo mbusi. Wabiza kuye omunye umeluleki wakhe futhi wathi wayefuna ukuba ambusise inkonzo yakhe ende futhi othembekile ungakhetha wesifazane kusukela ethathe umkakhe. Advisor, ngaphandle kokucabanga kabili, amkhethile ezintathu. Yafika kweyokuqala, wathi: "Yeka ukuthi kuyinto ezimbili plus ezimbili?". "Three" - ngokushesha Owesifazane waphendula, lapho umeluleki unqume ukuthi ukonga kakhulu. Eyesibili waphendula ngaphandle kokunqikaza: "Abane," lo umeluleki wathi umqondo wakhe ongaphezu kovamile. Lo wesifazane wesithathu bathi: "Ziyisihlanu," nomeluleki ukuhlola ukuphana yayo. Hlobo luni owesifazane wathatha umfazi? ". Phela izindaba ilandiswa labo emcimbini ahlinzekwa ezahlukeneyo zabo, ezwé kubo behalalisela uphetha ngenjabulo athi: "Wathatha enhle kakhulu! Ngakho masiphuze uphuzo izintokazi yethu enhle! ".

crystal inhliziyo

I bashayanisa izibuko, ukukhala elikhulu amahlaya "Omunyu" futhi ephapheme Toastmasters ufuna netindzaba uzonikhumbuza izivakashi isisa fragility omkhaya, mayelana imizwa emangalisayo nobungqabavu eyaba khona phakathi intsha. Emfanekisweni Ebukekayo laba abashadayo emshadweni, etshela we Crystal Iseluleki.

"Kwelinye idolobhana enye Ngahlala umthakathi ukuthi wenza amathoyizi ngokuphelele eyenziwe crystal. Ayemahle kakhulu futhi zazibiza imali eshisiwe, kodwa inkosi wabanika nje njengazo zonke izingane angomakhelwane. Yiqiniso, crystal ethambile wehluleka izingane imidlalo enomfutho futhi waphula, okuyinto kuyakhungathekisa izingane. Ngelinye ilanga inkosi wafika abazali yezingane wambuza, kungani ukunikeza izingane abanganaki ukuthi kulula ngakho zonke ukugqashula kuyo. Yena wathi emomotheka: "Ngolunye usuku izingane zakho Uyoletha isipho ukuthi ulula okungaphezu crystal - inhliziyo lowo omthandayo. Khona-ke bazokwazi uyiphatha njengoba kufanele. " Khumbula ukuthi inhliziyo Crystal othandekayo wakho, musa aphambane phansi ngumuntu ukunyakaza eningenandaba! ".

a peppercorn kancane

Kwesinye isikhathi abasha ukhohlwe ukuthi ukuphila komkhaya - akuyona nje injabulo engenamkhawulo. Bakhumbuze lo mfanekiso can-mbhalo for umshado: Kodwa lezi zimfundiso - yindlela enhle ukuze abonise le esanda kwenziwa owakwakhe imfihlakalo ngomshado.

"Isicebi kakhulu ekugugeni kwakhe, washada nentombi yase abasha amahle. unkosikazi Young bazama kanzima indoda yakhe, kodwa ngokushesha waqala ukubonisa ukuze bakhononde ngamamaki okucasula futhi monotony wokuphila, ukhathele it. mate Human wamangala: "Kwenzeka kanjani ukuba! unkosikazi wakho uthandeka, usekulungele ukwenza lutho kuwe! ". Indoda ecebile kanye ukumamatheka wamcela ukuba ahlale eyodla. On the table wakhonza shookolad, injabulo Turkish, amakhukhi, uswidi amakhekhe. Umngani wamangala isinqumo esinjalo izitsha, kodwa enambitha munye, enye, kwesithathu, kwesine ... esingaphansi kwehora, wanxusa: "Angikwazi abe izinyo elimnandi! Nginikeze yini enye. " Lesi sicebi amnika iwayini: "Uyabona-ke - ngisho ubumnandi kuyisicefe." Ngakho ake ukuphila komkhaya abasha yethu ebukhali okubabayo, anosawoti omningi, kodwa noma kunjalo hhayi ababayo! ".

izimbali zokuphila

Kodwa mfanekiso engapheli mayelana uthando - akusiwona lokho ofuna ukukuzwa lonke kusihlwa: abasha emva siyakuhalalisela lesithathu noma lesine ukucacisa konke. Ngakho iziphi ezizoqhubela imishado ngaphezulu? Kunjalo, kwanikwa umndeni ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuba babe ngaphezulu. Ukuze zicelo, ungasebenzisa lo mfanekiso wokuthi:

"Omunye umqophi wasebenza ukubaza amahle kakhulu - base enengqondo ukuze kwakubonakala ukuthi uyaphila. UNkulunkulu wanquma ambusise futhi wathembisa ukuba sikwazi ukuphefumula impilo entsha ku yimuphi izingcezu ezimbili ekhetha wizadi. I umqophi wadala indoda nowesifazane wobuhle okungavamile, okuyinto baphile futhi, ngokushesha sathandana. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, inkosi waphawula ukuthi badabukile ukuthi kukhona okushodayo emhlabeni kubo. Ngolunye usuku bafika umqophi wambuza wathi injabulo. Ngemva kakhulu amakhanda ke kusukela impahla esele ngemva kokudalwa kuka-pair of olubunjiwe ... ingane. Injabulo yangempela ezinganeni - ngisho njengoba kubonakala ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka! ".

Umthetho abaphezulu

Omkhulu okulo mzekeliso-mbhalo emshadweni kungase kuzwakale kusukela pair of abazali. A amahlaya kancane futhi eziningi ukushisa kuthokozise kokubili abashadayo izivakashi ukugujwa.

"Ngikhumbula indodana yami yokuqala kancane kubuya insimu e izingubo ezimanikiniki - ke uxabane nomuntu kusukela izingane. Khona Ngamtshela eliqinile ukuthi kwaba okokugcina. Kwathatha iminyaka embalwa, he fikisa esikoleni Deuce walo wokuqala, lokho, wamthethisa, ngaphinde wawaphinda la, futhi kwaba isikhathi sokugcina. Manje indodana yami sizoshada okokuqala. Futhi into kuphela ngifuna manje ukuba simtshele ukuthi: "Ukuze lokhu okokugcina!" ".

Kuhle ingxubevange

Uma sikhuluma izifiso amahlaya, uzoqhubeka baton ukuze Toast mzekeliso lomshado, emfushane, kodwa capacious kakhulu futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, uhlakaniphe ngokungenamkhawulo.

"Wonke umuntu ukhuluma ngani okwamanje, kodwa Nganginokucabanga ngekusasa. Uyazi, ukuphila kuze kube lomshado esiliva, uzodinga izinzwa ensimbi futhi ukubekezela segolide. Manje ake neziphuzo ingxubevange ayetholakala! ".

amaphethini kuphulwa

Futhi isipho amazing kakhulu kungaba isifanekiso yini ukuhlakanipha toastmaster noma izivakashi kwi-inthanethi, futhi emzekelisweni abasha emshadweni, kulandwa indaba yabo. Ungaqala nge umlobokazi: "Komunye umuzi wahlala intombazane, wayejabula kakhulu ukufunda, ngangifuna ukuba ngummeli, wayethanda sizungeze umuzi futhi ukubheka izinkanyezi, ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuphila ngaphandle amafilimu ukukhanya nothando okumsulwa futhi konke elinde wakhe kuphela," wabe esenezela ukuthi -Yini mayelana nomkhwenyana: "Budebuduze ke kwakukhona umfana, wayemthanda football kusukela ebuntwaneni, wayengumfundi okhuthele, kucatshangwa ukuthi udokotela. Kodwa-ke yena kakhulu bafundile, lomkhumbi olamandla ongedluli futhi benomusa. Futhi ngelinye ilanga wabona okufanayo enye intombazane yami. Futhi ngathandana naye lapho uwubona okokuqala. "

Yiqiniso, ungakwazi ukutshela lutho: Umlando kanye ukuphola, nobudlelwano. Futhi ukuze uqede, ungaba nje lomshado, abafisa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuze ukuphila nekusasa kwakungesona nje njengoba fabulous njengoba zonke ngemifanekiso lothando, wenza namuhla.

PS

"Umuntu oshade unyonga, Bald kanye namalimi wesifazane. Bonke abangani bakhe bashaqeka yilo misalliance, kodwa munye kuphela beza babuza ngqo:

- Kodwa baphi amehlo akho? Nanguya Bald!

- Kodwa akukho zindleko for abalungisa izinwele.

- Lame!

- Futhi ungenza ngaphandle lokhu lonke imfashini nezicathulo.

- Yebo, yena onamalimi!

- Kumele kube khona owesifazane okungenani ezinye yokuntula! "

Lokhu emzekelisweni okukhulu lomshado ukuze abasanda kushada futhi sithokozise bonke ababekhona. Kiss!