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Ngokwezibalo kwemibuso ezimbili eziyinhloko emhlabeni (Russia nase-United States), u-30% izingane ulethwa up eminyakeni yamuva, imikhaya enomzali oyedwa. Isizathu salokhu iba isehlukaniso (ngokuhlukana) usizi olungapheli kubazali, ukuntuleka kokuqala ubuhlobo bomndeni (lokuzalwa ngaphandle komshado), kokufa unina noma uyise. Akuphelele umndeni kuyinto, yebo, hhayi umusho. Emndenini efana nengane angahamba zikhule futhi ukuthuthukiswa enempilo futhi olinganiselayo ngokwengqondo esibanzi. Kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngeziphambeko namanje. Futhi ngokuvamile lokho kwanele.

Ukuze uqinisekise akhulela ngokwayo, ngaphandle ngemvelaphi nokuthuthuka zokwesaba ahlukahlukene, kudingeka umkhaya othile lapho ukunakwa uzokhokhelwa ingane ohlangothini zesifazane (umzali) kanye owesilisa (ubaba) - umndeni okuphelele.

Psychology uchaza ukuthuthukiswa Neurotic, ezibangela ukuziphatha okuyinqaba futhi patoharakterologicheskie ngokuyinhloko ukuntuleka emndenini ephelele ingane. umndeni Umzali kubonakala abafana pre-school e moodiness kanye umhayizo, Inkani causeless ngisho imikhaza; amantombazane ngokuvamile kwenzeka amalimi. Ukwethuka at abasesikoleni hhayi kuphela akusho hamba, kodwa kunalokho kwandisa. Futhi ezibangela ukuziphatha okuyinqaba babe evelele. Lokhu kungenxa sezinzwa iloli umama, abazali eshayisana hhayi kuphela ukufaka isehlukaniso, kodwa isikhathi eside ngemva kwalokho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane imodeli kubaluleke kakhulu ezanele ubunikazi bobulili, anikeza i umndeni akuphelele bengayi.

Umqalisi lokwehlukaniswa uqobo ecaleni zesifazane (umama), abanelisekile kwezinye izimo, umsungulo ngokweqile umyeni wakhe "ukungakwazi ukuhlala" bakhe, kuyilapho abanye - Inkulumo loya muntu owayezicabangela kakhulu futhi elukhuni ukubusa. indima ezincane, Isimanga siwukuthi, odlala abazali ngisho utshwala.

Imbangela ezivamile akahlanye neurosis abafana - ngokungabi bikho ithonya kayise, futhi kusho ngokomzwelo Ukuphendula umama. Ngokuvamile, kuba nawukuthi ekuchumana, hhayi ngaphambili kuvunyelwe, unina ukungezwani nabazali bakhe. Umama indlela kuletha lobudlelwane izingane, ekubeni bona omunye umthombo negative umtselela losengcondvweni.

Ngezinye izikhathi kukhona "Ukuqondisa kabusha okungalindelekile" umama omubi indodana yakhe lapho ikhula kakhulu njengoyise. Ikakhulukazi uma ngofuzo hhayi kuphela izici zangaphandle, "ungumuntu nje uyisiphukuphuku," "Nawe, futhi, ngeke benze lutho", njll Ngamanye amazwi, lo mama unika ukufakwa ezengeziwe phezu bebancane efanayo ingane yakho. Ngenxa yalokho - ukungalethembi, amahloni, noma, kunalokho, ukuba nolaka Ukuntuleka.

Emikhayeni enomzali oyedwa lapho umama waziphatha imfundo, ubudlelwane obuseduze namadodana akhe ukungqubuzana ezingaphezu kuka kanye namadodakazi abo.

Imindeni eziphukile, unina ngokuvamile ubuyela ekhaya kubazali bakhe. Ngokwemvelo, bamsekela indodakazi, uhlangabezana ubutha maqondana yangaphambili umkhwenyana. Futhi njalo ngisho nokuwabona, ukudala i umphumela ezengeziwe omubi psyche, ingcindezi ingane, obala lobu butha futhi recriminations umzukulu wafana uyise, okwenezela nakho ebuntwaneni.

Ngezinye izikhathi omama kudlule buck ukuba odokotela, abelaphi, othisha kanye namaqembu othisha-ngobusuku buka-izinkulisa nezikole boarding. Uma izingane abasele ukuphila nonina, ukunakekela kwabo ngokomthetho kuhluke kancane nje uma eqhathaniswa naso nokunakekela izingane enabazali ababili, kodwa umehluko ku control - ebalulekile. Girls imikhawulo abangaphansi kuka-abafana. Futhi ingcindezi ngazo ingasaphathwa. Izilawuli eqinile maqondana nezingane ngenxa isifiso ukuba ubalekele ikhophi kungenzeka zezici kayise. Ngakho-ke ukusola, izinsongo kanye nesijeziso ngokomzimba maqondana abafana ngaphezulu esebenzayo ngokuvamile. Futhi, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, wasala yedwa nendodakazi yakhe, lo mama libhekisela kuye ngokucophelela futhi ngobumnene. Ngokwengxenye ngoba uyibheka njengesibonakaliso isandiso ngokwaso futhi, indodakazi abafisa kokululama ngezinga elithile yena.

Ukwehlukanisa abazali kuthinta intombazane eyisimanga uma it bopha uyise kuka umama wakhe. izingqimba esisheshayo kungenziwa esebenzisa isihluku kanye nokusaba ukulahlekelwa isithunzi unina, okusho Ukwesaba nesizungu nabantu. Eselahle uyise, amantombazane aba maningi amathuba okuba kunentsha bayesaba ukuvumela hamba yokuzibona Umama. Besaba ukuthi umama akazange kanye babuyele kuye noma ukuthi kwenzeke okuthile. Khulisa ukwesaba jikelele, ukwesaba ezivamile esavela zisencane. Ngemva kwalokho - izifo: ukukhathazeka neurosis, neurosis akahlanye. Futhi esikhathini esizayo - neurosis, disorder esilawulayo-kuphoqeleke: imicikilisho usizi, imicabango ukwehluleka, ukungalondeki, zokwesaba.

Ngesikhathi yobudala bobusha kakade umsindo izimpawu ngokucacile futhi bacindezeleke-Neurotic: isimo sokucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka, ukungabi nathemba, ukungathembani, ngaphandle kokuphila ngokwesaba njalo, ukungalethembi yena, nakho ngenxa yokwehluleka okwakubonakala kuwukuphikisana, ukuqina wenhlanganyelo nabobulili obuhlukile, iyehla iyenyuka ekwenzeni izinqumo.

umndeni Akuphelele ngempela umusho. Vision ngaphakathi ubuhlobo nengane, alo emva nokuwohloka komkhaya, ukuyidedela ukucindezeleka esengeziwe kanye nokuthuthukiswa zokwesaba ahlukahlukene. Ungakhohlwa Into esemqoka: ingane akufanele sisole khona neqiniso lokuthi akuyona ubuhlobo kwabadala. Ngo enomzali oyedwa emndenini uzwela, ukwesekwa nokuhlanganyela ayadingeka kwasekuqaleni ingane, ogama isiphetho ixazululiwe ngaphandle kolwazi noma kwemvume yakhe ...