Izinhlobo uthando nezici zabo emfushane ngefilosofi yamaGreki

Ngazo zonke izikhathi nakuzo zonke izizwe thanda ayebhekwa elicwengekileyo, umuzwa ebaluleke kakhulu kwamandla akho, okungase ngokugcwele kahle indoda amnike sindiso olungenamkhawulo, noma black isibhakabhaka, lobumnyama ukuhlupheka. Wonke umuntu empilweni ahlangabezane Ngalowo mqondo futhi kunenkolelo yokuthi kukhona izinhlobo ezahlukene uthando.

Kodwa uthando akufani. Kungaba ukuzibonakalisa ngezindlela ezihlukene kakhulu, futhi umuntu ngamunye kuletha definition yabo uthando, osekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho. Akekho ngempela abakwazi ukusho ngokuthe ngqó yilokhu isizathu, kodwa kukhona okuningi tinsumansumane, tinganekwane ngisho azibhala zefilosofi uzama ngandlela-thile sichaze uhlobo lo muzwa. Yilokho kanye uvele ezihlukahlukene ngezigaba, owawuthi izinhlobo ezahlukene uthando.

Kule ngombono, igama lesiGreki ifilosofi izinganekwane kuyisici ezithakazelisayo ukufunda. Ngokwesibonelo, kukhona ezintathu eziyisisekelo izinhlobo zothando phakathi kwamaGreki.

Ecwebezelayo kakhulu kwalokhu Eros. Uthando olunjalo ihlinzeka uthando oluqinile, wokuzilibazisa. Lovers bathambekele uhlangane ngokuphelele nomuntu banayo ngomqondo ngokomzimba.

Ludus ubhekwa ifomu ohluke ngokuphelele uthando. Lolu hlobo game nendoda, lapho kukhona uthando, uthando, kodwa imizwa abasakwazi ezingabalulekile. Imizwelo enjalo ijabulisa, ukhohlwa ubuhlungu, umhawu sokukhaphela. Uthando olunjalo kuyinto yinye senzo, okuyinto futhi engabophi futhi akusho siphenduke into ngaphezulu.

Kukhona enye indlela uthando, othiwa esiqinile, futhi ubuhlobo kunothando. Phakathi abalingani kukhona njalo uthando, ubuhlobo mnene futhi efudumele, kodwa uthando uqeda sishoda.

Kodwa eqinisweni kuba eziyisisekelo ezintathu kuphela, izinhlobo eyisisekelo uthando, okuyinto ivelakancane njengoba injalo emsulwa. Yingakho ifilosofi yamaGreki lapho futhi ukuxuba izinhlobo uthando, ngenhlanhla, kuvamile kakhulu.

Ngokwesibonelo, ifomu lalivamile kubhekwa pragma, okuyinto ngokwesimo sawo inhlanganisela esiqinile futhi ludus. Lena isibonelo esivelele uthando pragmatic, noma, njengoba zibizwa kanjalo uthando lula. Yebo, umuzwa lingeliningi kakhulu, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo abantu anamekwe nomunye futhi ukuzwa noma ukubona ezinye isisa ukufudumala. Imizwa enjalo lula kakhulu ukulawula, ukuze umuntu akwazi ukuphatha ngaphandle nobunzima. Imizwelo neze iphazamise ingqondo abaphoqelelwa ukuba benze izenzo uhlanya. abantu nje kahle ndawonye futhi lokhu kungaba samanje bese uphonsa ukubala.

Omunye amafomu kwathinta inhliziyo kunawo wonke uthando - kuba agape, okuyinto iqoqo esiqinile futhi eros. Lolu thando luyisisusa ngokuphelele olungenabugovu nesineke, ayiboni ubugovu futhi kusekelwe ukunakekelwa kothandekayo. Ngeshwa, le mizwa abasakwazi ezingavamile. Abathanda abantu ngokuphelele uzibophezele, bamane chaza nomunye, ngizizwa sindiso efanayo esingakhulumekiyo. Futhi uma lokhu iwukubonisa uthando mutual, lo mbhangqwana uyojabula ngisho inhlokomo yasendlini noma ukuxabana encane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuzwa Kuthi yingozi. Phela, uma indoda asuse into simthande kwakhe, ukuphila kwakhe nje linqoba inhloso.

Omunye amafomu eyingozi kakhulu kulolu imizwa - mania. Lapha, igama liyazikhulumela, ngoba mania ubhekwa nenye eros futhi ludus. Lena umuzwa ojulile kakhulu, qhathanisa lokhu kukhathazeka. Lolu hlobo lothando ebhubhisa ledzingekako kute imindeni ijabule, imbangela siyadabuka futhi izinhlekelele kuletha ekuphileni komuntu nokubhujiswa ubuhlungu. Phela, i-elementi esisemqoka luncike into simthande nokungaqiniseki reciprocity. Futhi uma uthando akazange aqale ukuba bahlale ndawonye, bese lolu hlobo, njengoba umthetho, sikhule size sibe olunye uhlobo noma iphele ngokuphelele, washiya ubuhlungu, inzondo nentukuthelo. Ukuze siphile isikhathi eside nge nomuzwa enjalo akunakwenzeka, ngoba kanye injabulo bekhulisa ukucindezeleka kwengqondo nobuhlungu macabre.

Eqinisweni, kukhona azibhala abaningi nemisebenzi enikelwe kulo mqondo ongafi. Futhi uma ufunda izinhlobo uthando Fromm, singabona ukuthi inike kanye okuthiwa uthando lobuzalwane, leyo ayibheka njengento eyisisekelo. Ngalo mqondo kukhona okhathalelayo, isisa nesifiso sokuvikela. Lolu hlobo lothando kweBhayibheli lapho indoda uthanda umakhelwane wakhe njengoba ezithanda, ngisho noma baphelelwa ikhono uthando.

Thanda kungaba zihluke kakhulu, athwale injabulo noma usizi, aphonse in obishini lokuphelelwa emizweni emangalisayo, noma kuze kube phakade ukuze ugaye etilongweni ubuhlungu. Konke kuncike uhlobo abantu, ukuthambekela kwawo futhi sokuthuthukisa.