Indlela yokwenza izingane ngendlela efanele

Embuzweni: "Uqale wafunda kuphi ngocansi? Ubani owachaza kuqala uhlelo lonke lokuzala?" - iningi labantu lizophendula: "Umgwaqo, abangani babengabafundisi bokuqala kule ndaba eyinkimbinkimbi."

Ngeshwa, lokhu kuyiqiniso. Phela, ngisho nasesikhathini lapho kukhona ukuthembela kobudlelwane obuseduze phakathi kwezingane nabazali, umbuzo wokuthi kufanele wenze kanjani izingane kahle, ngokuvamile ubeka abantu abadala ekufeni. Abazali ngezinye izikhathi abakwazi ukuthola impendulo ehloniphekile kulo mbuzo futhi bahlale bethule, noma baqondise ingane kwenye ilungu lomndeni, noma ngisho nje benze zonke izinhlobo zezinganekwane.

Iningi lezinganekwane, lapho kuthiwa yimpendulo yalo mbuzo, nakakhulu kudideka izingane. Isithwathwa seqhwa senziwa ngeqhwa, ibhola inhlama yenziwe inhlama, umfana onomunwe wabonakala emunwe owodwa. Kanti futhi zakhiwe ngabazali bale nguqulo izingane ezilala ngaphansi kweklabishi ensimini, zithengwa esitolo noma izitshiyozi ziletha. Futhi kungekudala kakhulu, ngisho ne-cartoon yabonakala, lapho abalobi babonisa khona ukuthi amafu enza kanjani abantwana, bese-ke ama-storks ethwala izinyane - nesilwane, kanye nezingane, ekhelini.

Ngenxa yezincazelo ezingalungile, izingane zilahlekelwa ukubaluleka kobudlelwane bomndeni: uma izingane zenza kanjalo kalula, kusho ukuthi aziyize kubazali? Ngokufanayo, kucabanga ukuthi: "Kungani kufanele ubathande futhi ubahloniphe? Ucabanga ukuthi uthola endaweni ethile! Yebo, kungcono ukuthi ngithole omunye umama! "Kuthiwani ngendaba yokuthi ogogo nomkhulu bangempela okhokho bomndeni kule nkinga akunakwenzeka ukufakazela. Mhlawumbe yingakho lesi saga savela ngo-Ivan, ongakhumbuli ubuhlobo bakhe?

Ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukufihla amantombazane ukuthi angenza kanjani izingane kahle? Phela, uma usondela kulo mbuzo ngobuciko, ungakwazi kalula futhi uchaze ngendlela engokomfanekiso le nqubo eyinkimbinkimbi. Akekho ophikisanayo wokuthi lesi sihloko sithandwa kakhulu, ngakho-ke siyakuthandeka kakhulu esizukulwaneni esincane.

Yiqiniso, uma ingane isencane kakhulu, kwanele ukuveza kuphela iqiniso lokukhulelwa. Vumela uthando lomama wakhe luvulekele ngoluhlangothi oluzwakalayo: Umama nobaba bephupha ngaye, befuna kakhulu ukuthi azalwe, ngakho uMama wavuma ukugqoka esiswini sakhe cishe unyaka, ukuba athwale ubuhlungu lapho ezalwa. Leli qiniso liyophakamisa ukuzethemba kwezingane, kuyoba nentambo exhumayo: ayengeke avele kunoma yimuphi omunye umndeni! Uqhubeka noMama nobaba.

Kodwa kwabanye abantwana le ncazelo ayanele. Kudinga ukucaciswa: "Futhi ngifinyelela kanjani emathunjini omama? Futhi ngokujwayelekile - ukuthi ungenza kanjani izingane kahle? "Izazi zengqondo ziphendula lo mbuzo kubazali abadidekile:" Uma ingane ibuza umbuzo onjalo, ukucabanga kwakhe sekuvele kwakhiwe ngokugcwele ukuze uthole impendulo eqotho kuye. Ukulungiselela kuphela kufanele kusengaphambili. "

Ngokuyinhloko ekusizeni kwabazali kukhona ngisho nezincwadi ezinezithombe nezincazelo ezilungiselelwe izingane ezitshela ngokucacile futhi ngeqiniso indlela yokwenza izingane kahle, kungani abantu abadala kuphela bengaba nabantwana nokuthi yini omama nabazali abaya embhede owodwa. Ukugcizelelwa okuyinhloko kulezi zincwadi kwenziwa ngothando lwabantu abadala ababili, umphumela wokubeletha usana.

Isimo sibi nakakhulu uma abantu abadala bevame ukuhlushwa umbuzo onjalo. Abantu abanjalo bayothola impendulo kuwo emaqoqweni akhethekile "Izingane zibukeka kanjani zisenhla" kunemibhalo yombhalo noma kumaqoqo afanayo wezithombe ezinama-signatures. Futhi kukhona ividiyo ezithakazelisayo, futhi, negama elifanayo.

Yiba noma kunjalo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekuzalweni kwezingane ezithandekayo uthando lwabazali babo, isifiso sabo bobabili ukushiya iningi lomphefumulo wabo, isikhathi, amandla, futhi yini engalungile, imali - kuphela ukuthi umuntu omusha aphile Ukukhanya nokujabula.

Ngempela, ukwenza futhi ukubeletha ingane akuyona i-feat. Kunzima kakhudlwana ukukhulisa lokhu kuphunyuka okulula, ukukhulisisa nokuyiqinisa, ngokutshala imali ekuqapheliseni imiqondo eyisisekelo yokuziphatha komuntu, ukwenza kube yindoda yangempela.