Imfihlo yempumelelo noma kanjani ukushintsha uhlamvu lwakho

"Udinga ukushintsha izici uhlamvu futhi konke kuzolunga" - avame kululekwa nabanye uma bebona nomngane wakhe wakudala abanelisekile ngokuphila isimo sabo emsebenzini noma isimo sengqondo kuwe kwabanye abantu.

Abanye ucabange indlela ukushintsha uhlamvu wakho ukuze baxazulule izinkinga ezikhona kanye ukuvimbela izingxabano kungenzeka esikhathini esizayo. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwenzeka ngo-imibhangqwana eshadile, abazisa ubuhlobo bomkhaya.

Emsebenzini, ekhaya nabangani, abantu bakwenze njalo izingxoxo mayelana uhlamvu. Kuthiwa ukuthi uhlamvu abantu kusiza empilweni nasemsebenzini, futhi kube yiyo indawo engaphephile.

Ngalezi izilungiselelo umbuzo kanjani ukushintsha uhlamvu yayo - kuba cishe legumbi sisendleleni eya ekuphileni nasenjabulweni emsebenzini.

Uma unombuzo, kufanele kube isinqumo sakhe. Njengoba sazi ukuthi lesi sihloko akuyona zezemfundo, ucabangela ukuthi imfundiso yokuziphendukela psyche futhi ukuziphatha Psychology muntu ngeke. Kuyoba kuphela ukubhekana ezicini zokuphila kanjani ukushintsha uhlamvu yakho futhi ukuthi kusho, eqinisweni.

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Kunjalo, uma ngaphambi noma yisiphi isenzo abantu zama ukwethula ngokucacile imiphumela, okuyinto bafuna ukufeza noma ukuthola.

Uma abantu befuna ukushintsha izici uhlamvu, nabo bafuna ukufeza okuthile noma uthole into ngenxa izinguquko.

Kukhona umbuzo enengqondo: Yini ngempela ukufeza noma uthole, futhi kungani ushintsho uhlamvu?

• Cabangela impendulo ingxenye yokuqala "izizathu" mayelana nodaba ngokusebenzisa izisusa zokuziphatha kwabantu.

Ungathola emzimbeni noma Ukubhoboza, ungakwazi ukushintsha umbala noma isitayela of izingubo. Abantu bangakuthola futhi balenze. Ngenxa yalokho, abantu ukushintsha nombono wabo nabanye futhi bashintshe isimo sabo. Bona zokwazi ukufinyelela komphakathi emibuthanweni noma "iqembu", lapho ngaphambili Ayikwazanga ukufinyelela. Thola kugqugquzelwa, ngiphuphe nokuningi.

Ukushintsha ukubukeka kwaso, abantu uthole credit ukwethenjwa kwabanye.

Ngamanye amazwi, abantu seziqala ukwenza okuthile nabo ukuze bangazuza into entsha, into bengakwenzi. Bazama inzuzo, hhayi ngempela nendaba.

Le nzuzo ukuthi abantu bavame baziswa futhi kufanele kube njalo ufuna babe nemali kuzo zonke izici.

Ukufeza izinzuzo abantu abasha ucabange indlela ukushintsha uhlamvu lwakho.

• Cabangela impendulo ingxenye "izizathu" mayelana nodaba yesibili ngokusebenzisa imodeli ekuziphatheni kwabantu.

Ukuze kufezeke inhloso oyifunayo kufanele kube ukwenza konke okumele kwenziwe futhi akukho kancane. Umuntu angenza ukuba ingafika eqophelweni lapho cishe bonke, uma umgomo kanye izindlela luhambisane kahle ubuntu bakhe.

Uma umuntu axoshwe semfashini noma isixuku bethatheka, umgomo walo oyifunayo - zamanga. Kulokhu, konke umuntu, uzochitheka futhi uyonikeza yi ubuncane.

Umkhuhlane kwenzeka umuntu lapho akakhulumi emsebenzini wabo, hhayi indawo "yabo" futhi uzama ukuthola kuya Ukukhanya Okuholela.

Lapho sifundela umuntu othile efuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi akuyona isidingo yobuntu bakhe esingokwemvelo, akabe impumelelo nokuhlupheka. Ukukhanya Okuholela akakwazi ukukufinyelela.

womuntu uhlamvu alicacisi yakhe iphumelele ekuphileni. Ungakwazi labashadile baphumelele baphindze bajabule kunoma iyiphi uhlamvu. Into esemqoka ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuba naye lo - it is behileleke nakwezamabhizinisi "yabo". Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi bathole baphinde baxhumane nabantu othatha indoda enjengoba enjalo.

Ngokwesibonelo Abstract:

Penguin ngeke kushintshe uhlamvu yayo ngenxa ukuthuthela "nemfashini futhi cool" seziqhingi zaseCanary Islands, lapho Uzofa frost nezinye penguins.

Wonke umuntu kumele abe imvelo inhlobo yabo futhi bajabule.

Ukuletha izingxenye ezimbili kuphendvula ngokuthi "ocabangelayo" umbuzo sithola:

1. Abantu bacabanga ukushintsha wezinhlamvu yini okwakuyodingeka ukuze uthole okuthile.
2. Thola into entsha kungaba indlela elula, uma endaweni yemvelo bona bese uya inhloso "ejwayelekile".

Ingabe Singakwazi yini ukushintsha umlingisi ukuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yokuphila?

Kukhona impendulo ilula: kodwa ukuthi kungani? Ukuze uthuthukise izinga lokuphila ngokwanele ukuqeda Okuqondiwe zamanga, ukulingisa abanye abantu futhi uthole indlela yokuzithuthukisa.