Xoxa nezingane ukuxoxa ngamalimi: izingane kanjani?

Futhi iqiniso, ukuthi kungani indaba ephathwayo yokuzalwa izingane nemindeni ngokuvamile umgoqo? Mhlawumbe abadala ephethwe amahloni ngezinye izikhathi zamanga, ukubukeleka phansi eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi infantilism? Phela, njengoba uma abadala musa ibenze leli phuzu, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umbuzo zendlela yokwenza izingane, endiza amakhanda yezingane. Ngakho-ke, nokukulungiselela ngomusa.

Yiqiniso, ungakwazi baphendukela izaba ozithandayo, ezifana "ukuthola iklabishi", "olubunjiwe kusukela wokudla" noma "ukuthenga esitolo." Impendulo obujwayelekile ibinzana ukuthi izingane ukuletha storks. Futhi uma iningi yonke into eziyibonayo izingane ukwazi kuphakama umbuzo olandelayo: storks futhi lapho ukuthatha?

Namuhla-Inthanethi nesidingo esikhulu kuyinto cartoon "Indlela yokwenza izingane amafu." Kuyo multipliers udlulela phambili. Basikisela ukuthi amawundlu izilwane nezingane, abantu sculpt amafu - amafu, usebenzisa umbani - osenyameni kagesi usenze kubo, futhi storks ukuthatha bese udlulisa amakheli. Lolu hlobo inganekwane - kanti ingane uthola impendulo umbuzo onjalo eziyinkimbinkimbi!

Futhi lokho okumelwe ukusho kubantwana izinyane eyohamba ukubuza, ngalokho okwenzeka kuma-midsection acele kumakhelwane wakhe, u-Anti Zina, futhi kungani ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho wafika esifubeni ingane? Futhi kungani bangiphuca "ambulensi" uma izingane nje ukwenza amafu, bese ulethe storks? Sizoba ukuba aqambe amanga futhi ...

Yiqiniso, kunzima ukuthola amagama afanele ukukhuluma ngokucacile chazela umntanakho indlela yokwenza izingane, e nayo yonke imininingwane yayo. Nakuba ikhiphe nesabelo ekhethekile, lapho abazali bafundziswa kutsi bangayakha njani nje nangempumelelo kungembula ingane le "esibi" imfihlo. Uma ingane incane kakhulu, kulula ngokwanele ukuba bathi kancane ezikhulayo kwesisu Mommy sika. Khona-ke odokotela bakhe esibhedlela ukuze uthole futhi anikeze abazali bajabule.

Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuba isiqiniseko ukuba izingane nawu umbuzo elandelayo: kanjani ukuthi ingane ithola ukuthi kwesisu kamama? Yilokho uma kudingeka bachazele izingane zabo ukuthi ukuzalwa komntwana onengxenye bobabili abazali. Abaningi uyoba umangale, ngoba ngisho akakwazi ucabange ukuthi amazwi ukutshela indodana noma indodakazi yakhe ukuthi abazali ukwenza ebusuku!

Umhlahlandlela abazali inikeza nale ncazelo. Umama nobaba kakhulu othanda nomunye, ngakho ayevame sigonane njalo. Phela wena, lezinyane lembuzi elilodwa, kaningi kakhulu yayicindezele umama noma papule, ogogo nomkhulu, ngoba ungumuntu kakhulu afana nawo, angithi? Kodwa ukwangiwa izingane ezinjalo ngeke uthole.

Ingane ingase ibonakale kuphela uma abantu abadala abazona kuphela bethandana, kodwa futhi unqume ukuthi badinga nengane encane kancane. Khona-ke baqala ukuba bamukele ukuhluka kancane, njengoba nje izingane kuyenzeka. Ngemva kwalokho, lona wesifazane esiswini kukhona indoda little amancane. Kancane kancane ukhula khona, dlanini umama odlayo, uphefumula naye. Khona-ke uqala ukunyakaza ngisho ngaphakathi kuye, wawela imilenze nezingalo! Ngoba kakade bukhoma!

Izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-6 impendulo yombuzo othi, kanjani izingane ngokuvamile okwanele. Kodwa uma umbuzo ucela omdala kakhulu, lokho, isibonelo, has amaningi njengoba 10 iminyaka, incazelo kungase kube olunemininingwane ethe xaxa. Usevele ukuchaza ukuthi anti ngaphakathi kukhona indawo ekhethekile ukuthwala ingane, futhi kunjengokungathi iqanda kuyinto - kunjani zheltochek e amaqanda inkukhu.

Futhi, yena nomalume wakhe kuyinto izingwejeje ngaphakathi. Lapho amaprotheni ngaphakathi umamncane nomyeni okuhlanganisiwe ne-isikhuphasha amaqanda, kokukhulelwa senzeka, okungukuthi, ukuvela umuntu nje entsha. Le ncazelo ikakhulukazi kudingeka sabafana lapho ayeseqala nentshisekelo umbuzo wokuthi kungani abantu abesilisa nabesifazane ezahlukene zingafani umthondo, futhi indima ebeletha kuthiwa elalihlala amadoda.

Lena incazelo ebalulekile ikakhulukazi kodwa ngenxa yokuthi umfana kubalulekile ukuvikela nokuganga ngezitho zabo zobulili. Futhi lokho Amelelani indima wenduku ekuphileni kwakhe esikhathini esizayo uzokwazi ukunikeza nikhuthaze ukuhambisana ngendlela enempilo e abasha futhi yobudala amadala.