Kanjani ukuqonda unkosikazi mzalwane yakhe - ngubani yena kimi?

Ukuze siqonde eyisihlobo ngezinye izikhathi ezinzima kakhulu. Kwakuvamise ukuba ukuthi umkhaya omkhulu ezizukulwane eziningana wahlala ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa, ukukhumbula ukuthi singobani, futhi ubani kufanele, akuzange kube nzima, ngoba zonke migomo erudite babe njalo phezu kwe-indlebe. Ezinsukwini zethu, lapho izihlobo ngezinye izikhathi ehlakazekile emhlabeni wonke futhi beze ndawonye kuphela ngesikhathi izenzakalo ezinkulu, amazwi athi "in-law", "Umfowenu nomalokazana", "umalokazana", "umalokazana", njll abaningi bethu kubonakale kungavamile futhi asizwakali nhlobo. Noma kunjalo, ake azame ukuthola imemori yokhokho bethu amagama nokuzwelana, akudingekanga ke ukuba sizibuze emcimbini: "? Umzalwane lomfati - ngubani yena kimi"

Indlela ukubiza unkosikazi umzalwane

Ukuze ubone ukuthi umndeni othize, noma bangaphezi intersecting zithwala kobuhlobo singenza ikhanda lakho spin. Ngakho, kwakukhona izelamani ezimbili Ivan futhi Vasily. Bobabili baba sina amadoda ashadile. Ivan ngayo uMariya kanye Basil ukuze Darya. Futhi indlela ocabanga sizodinga ukuphendula umbuzo, isibonelo, u-Ivan: "Umfowenu komkami, ungubani kimi?". Ngempela, ngaye esemkhiphela Daria?

Abadala kulo mbuzo kuzoba waphendula ukuthi owesifazane eRussia libizwa umalokazana wakhe, kwezinye izindawo - umlotha, futhi eduze Ukraine, wayekade elinye igama - noma BRATOVO yatrovka.

Ngamunye abesifazane abasebasha - noMariya noDaria - manje ithole umzala entsha - indodakazi (okungukuthi, nomunye noma iwe omakoti snoshennitsami). Phela, lo indodakazi ingakhishwa nje kuphela ngokuthi ubaba wakwakhe, kodwa futhi umfowabo bendoda (ie eyindodakazi uMarja Basil noDaria - Ivan), kanye nawo wonke umkhaya somyeni wakhe.

Ubuhlobobo umkamfowabo ngokuya udadewabo

Futhi esimweni lapho umndeni umfowethu bukhoma futhi udade, unkosikazi, mfowethu, dadewethu kufanele ngokuthi okuthile okuhlukile? Cha, akukho okusha ukuba yasungulwa - nodadewabo unkosikazi umnewabo sika, futhi, kungaba indodakazi-noma, ngendlela ehlukile, BRATOVO. Kodwa yena , lo dade ukuba udade isivele-mthetho. Phela, kwezinye izindawo ibizwa ngokuthi "zolovischey" (cishe umunyu!).

Ngokuthakazelisayo, nabazala ezinsukwini ubudala wabizwa ngokuthi "mfowethu" noma "bratelnik" (lokho lapho lezi uyaziqhenya sokunquma engu 90!), Futhi kwabafazi babo, ngokulandelana, "bratanihami". Okungukuthi, bekuthola: "Umfowethu umka - ukuthi ungubani kimi," uyazi ukuthi abazalwane nomzala bakhe, kanye nomkabo, kunqunywa imigomo eziningana ezahlukene.

Kancane kabanzi mayelana nomndeni komyeni wakhe

Ukuhlaziya lokho okudingekayo ukuze umkamfowabo, singahlosile bemba ezijulile, futhi manje ngeke sisakwazi sehluleke ingasaphathwa kanjani emva komshado, uMariya Daria kudingeke ushayele Umfowabo womyeni wakhe. Ukuze Mary Basil (Umfowabo womyeni sika) - umzalwane-futhi, njengoba wazi, u-Daria Ungafonela Ivan.

Kodwa uma, isibonelo, ube Daria efanayo has sakhe umzalwane (ake sibize ke, uStepan), kungokwenduduzo Basil (umyeni Darin) kuyoba nomfowabo noma Schwager. A UStepan ngoba Basil, futhi u-Ivan indodana ngeke shurichem. Nokho, le nkulumo yokugcina manje kubhekwe akusebenzi ngokuphelele, futhi cishe akekho uyakhumbula (kodwa ngeke akwazi nokukwenza erudition yakho!).

Engeza kancane izihlobo ngengqondo kanye real

Futhi uma sicabanga ukuthi 'uMary, umfazi ka-Ivan, has a udade oshadile, izophila zicatshangelwe Ivan sister- umalokazana wakhe, futhi umyeni wakhe, ngokulandelana, isihlobo. Okungukuthi, kuvela ukuthi e-imithetho - lena amalungu omndeni, ogama nabafazi nodade. Uma sikhuluma abazala, abayeni babo phakathi kwabo ezocatshangelwa kakade umfowabo abazala.

Njengoba ubona ngokubuza umbuzo: "Ubani enginaye umkamfowabo", Thina kancane alungise ngenye ahlobene. Futhi ubani owazi, mhlawumbe lolu lwazi izokusiza ukuba ugcine ubuhlobo obuhle kulo mkhaya omusha. By the way, lokho yisibonelo esikhazimulayo zingakhiqiza ukuhlolwa ezithakazelisayo olwenziwe ososayensi baseBrithani. Babuthana e iqembu abantu hhayi ngaphambili ajwayelekile, ibike abanye ukuthi zingabantu izihlobo komunye nomunye. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi esikhathini esizayo laba bantu ziye zashintsha komunye nomunye ubungane obuseduze kakhulu, etshela abaphenyi ukuthi ngokuzumayo ngiphaphama umuzwa umndeni.

A yokuvalelisa encane kulabo baqonde, ngubani unkosikazi womzalwane

Ulubizela yezinhlamvu omude izihlobo futhi umyeni, sithemba, sisengabantu ecacile. Vele kuwufanele kanye ukudweba uhlelo okwamanje okungenani bakudala yalezi ubudlelwane, futhi uthola Ekuqaleni okuphila kwasemshadweni futhi kakhulu ithiphu indlela yokugwema esebophela amahloni bokuhlukanisa ubuhlobo obusha. Futhi ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, ungakwazi kakade ukwenzani emoyeni uchwepheshe ukuphendula umbuzo ayesanda kuluthola, ufakazi wokuzibonela owayedidekile isihlobo: "Umfowethu umka - ngubani Kuzongisiza ngani mina?".

Futhi wavuma ukuthi esikhundleni amagama ukwakha uchungechunge uhlobo: "udadewabo unkosikazi somfowethu," kuyoba lula kakhulu ukuba ushayele eside nokuzwelana "Udade nomalokazana." Ngaphezu kwalokho, hhayi oluphethe ngokugcwele migomo, sizokwenza kube nzima ukucabanga bezibona imisebenzi ebhaliwe (kanye nababhali uthande ukusebenzisa lezi amagama izihlobo), kanye zamasiko kanye namasiko, ngisho yasendlini, beza kithi kusukela esikhathini esidlule.