Indlela yokutshela umfana ekhaya. Mema uthando lwakho empilweni yakho

Kunzima ukukhomba isikhathi esiqondile sokuvela komlingo wothando, kodwa empeleni kwenzeke kakhulu, isikhathi eside kakhulu, umuntu akakwazi ngisho nokungabaza. Ngeshwa, ngokuqondene nobulili phakathi neminyaka eminyaka, okuncane kushintshile. Uthando ngaphandle kokuhleleka lulokhu lulimaza inhliziyo, lushiya umuzwa wokuphelelwa ithemba emphefumulweni. Kungcono ukubekezelela isikhashana, kuze kube yilapho ubuhlungu budlula, bese uqala ukwakha ubudlelwane obusha. Kodwa kunalokho, abaningi bayashesha ukucinga i-intanethi noma izincwadi ezincwadini zokupheka esoteric, indlela yokutshela umfana ekhaya, ucele usizo lwabatshakathi.

Ngokweqiniso, angisona umsizi wezixazululo "zamandla" ezindabeni ezinjalo futhi manje ngizochaza ukuthi kungani. Okwamanje akukho muntu owakwazi ukuziphoqa ukuba akhule. Umkhuba wepelingi uqinisekisa kuphela ukuba khona kwethonya eduze kwakho, kodwa injabulo kuyo (ukholelwa) ngeke ibe khona. Emva kwakho konke, uzobe usuvele uhlale nomunye umuntu. Akekho ongaqinisekisa ukuthi ngeke aphuze, ahlasele, akushaya wena nabantwana. Qaphela ukuthi ukuqeda le "injabulo" kuyoba nzima kakhulu.

Lezi zizathu azizange zikuqinisekise? Ingabe usavutha nesifiso sokushaya eyodwa yakho? Ake sizame ukucabanga ngokulinganayo. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane abasha abashiya baphendukela ekupheni. AmaSoviet, indlela yokutshela umfana ekhaya kude, echibini lase-inthanethi eliyishumi nambili. Ngakho-ke, unesigamu sokuphila uzohamba kuphela ukuthola phakathi kwezinhlelo eziningi eziphumelela ngempela. Futhi manje khumbula ukuthi isipela sibheka kanjani. Njengomthetho, unikezwa ngezinsuku ezimbalwa ngokulandelana (ubude beviki kuya enyangeni) ngesikhathi esifanayo ukukhumbula umthandi wakho futhi umgqugquzele ngamandla ngemizwa ngokwabo. Akukwaziwa okwamanje ukuthi amandla akho aphezulu ayophelisa usizi lwakho, kodwa wena ngokwakho uzobulala ikhanda lakho. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi ngeke nginikeze lapha izincomo zendlela yokutshela umfana ekhaya.

Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukukhiqiza. Kubuye kwenzeke ukuthi lo mbhangqwana uzwelana nomunye nomunye, kodwa bobabili banganqikazi ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala. Kulokhu, akusona isono sokuphoqa umuntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo esinqumayo.

Lo mkhuba uzoveza imizwa ekude. Ngomlingo wothando, kunemithetho. Udinga ukuba ube "ngenyanga ekhulayo", kungcono ngoLwesithathu nangoLwesihlanu. Kulo mkhosi uzodinga ikhandlela elibomvu , amafutha omlilo anamakha , iphepha kanye nepeni (elisha), ucezu lwendwangu ebomvu, ipuleti noma i-tray yensimbi. Isithombe sento yesevisi siyadingeka, kodwa akusibopho.

Ukuze uthole umkhosi, lungiselela itafula elincane ngendwangu. Thatha ikhandlela ngakwesobunxele sakho, unganise iminwe yakho emafutheni bese kancane kancane, uhamba phezulu phezulu kusuka phansi, ugaxe ngokuphelele. Ngemuva kwalokho, vula ilangabi kusuka kumdlalo bese ubhala eqabeni isaziso sakho sothando. Uma kukhona isithombe, ungayifaka phambi kwakho futhi usho konke, ubheke ngqo kwento yethando.

Ngemuva kwalesi sihloko ngokungangabazi, sibeke esitokisini bese usishisa. Ngesandla sakho sokunxele sishayela phezu kwentaba yomlotha, ucabange umhlangano nomthandekayo wakho emininingwaneni encane kakhulu. Lokhu kubonakala kufanele kudlule okungenani imizuzu eyi-10. Ngemuva kwalokho, umlotha kufanele usakazeke emoyeni, ngamanye amazwi, uthelelwe efasiteleni.

Njengoba ngishilo , kunezindlela eziningi zokutshela umfana ekhaya . Kodwa kunzima ukuthonya umuntu othize, udinga ukuba namakhono amahle kulokhu. Ngikholelwa, isipelingi esiphumelelayo asikho emandleni azo zonke izimo zengqondo, ungazivumeli abantu abavamile. Kodwa ukuthola isigamu sakho sesibili ngosizo lomlingo kungaba noma yini kuwe.

Lolu hlelo aluhlangene nezeluleko, indlela yokutshela umfana ekhaya. Kunalokho, kungaqhathaniswa nezindlela zengqondo zokubukwa, noma kunjalo, izakhi zomthelela wemilingo zikhona lapha.
Ngomsebenzi uzodinga amafutha anamakha azinhlobo ezintathu: i-carnation, i-rose, i-jasmine, i-candle pink noma ibomvu (kuye ngokuthi hlobo luni lobuhlobo obufunayo), iphepha nepeni nge-inki ebomvu. Umkhosi wonke uzokuthatha amasonto amabili futhi akuyona into engathandeki ukuwuphazamisa.

Nsuku zonke, mhlawumbe emahoreni angavamile, ukhanyisa ikhandlela futhi ubheka umlilo ucabange umthandi wakho omuhle. Ungalungisa ephepheni zonke izici zobunikazi nokubukeka ongathanda ukubona kumlingani wakho.

Ekupheleni kwesikhathi, qala ukuhlala njengokungathi uvele uhlangane nothando lwakho nosuku lwakho kulobubusuku.

Esinye isimo sokuphila, lapho kungesona isono sokusebenzisa umlingo, ukuphinga noma ukupholisa ubudlelwano.

Ngikunikeza indlela elula yokutshela umyeni ekhaya.
I-Vorozhei le ndlela ibizwa ngokuthi i-snapping. Uzodinga izingubo zangaphansi zakho kanye nomngane wakho womshado, okuzodinga ukuba uthathe iziqephu. Izindophi ezibophezele ziqiniswe, ziphindaphinda ngamunye ngeholide ngalinye: "Ngikhupha - ngiyaxosha, izinhloso zenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) nezinceku zikaNkulunkulu (igama) zixhunyiwe." I-pigtail ekulungele kufanele iboshwe esihlahleni esisitshaliwe bese ithi okulandelayo: "Njengezinyoni esihlahleni endaweni yaso, ngakho-ke (ngegama lomyeni) sisodwa." Amen. "