Indlela ukuxhumana intombazane futhi siza wo

Ngezinye izikhathi uxoxe intombazane isuka ku ngokushelela, kodwa kwavela ngokuzuma i misa isikhashana engeyinhle, hhayi oyofika engqondweni, nakwazi sendlela yokuqhubeka nengxoxo. Bheka intombazane iba ehlasela umzimba kakhudlwana, avame ukuba ubalekele ekhaya. Kanjani ukuba uthole ukusebenza ezimweni ezinjalo bangabhekana futhi kanjani ukuxhumana intombazane, hhayi nje ukuba isithakazelo sayo, kodwa futhi nethuba ngamaphesenti ayikhulu kutsi bachubeke nebuhlobo?

Okokuqala, akudingekile ukwakha ingxoxo ngezihloko kwansuku, okungukuthi inkulumo kuphela ngesimo sezulu, umsebenzi, cwaningo. Kufanele kube okujabulisa uhla izithakazelo kanye nezihloko okuxhumana. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ukubukela izinhlelo zemfundo, ukufunda izincwadi, ukugcina iso ezintweni ezenzekayo ezithakazelisayo.

Okwesibili, labo abazi kanjani ukukhuluma owesifazane, kufanele uqonde ukuthi ubulili besifazane ngokomzwelo ngaphezulu, kodwa amadoda zisekelwe nengqondo ingxoxo. Uma ufuna ukukhuluma ngakho uhambo lwakhe France, kubalulekile ukuchaza imizwa yabo, imizwa evezwe, imizwa, hhayi kuphela umlando wawo onke amatshe ezikhumbuzo noma pyanok zokudlela wendawo.

Okwesithathu, ungakhuluma kanjani owesifazane, uma ungazi kanjani ukubuza imibuzo efanele? Akubalulekile ekuqaleni wokuthinta izihloko obuseduze, ukukhuphuka singene umphefumulo, cela mayelana iholo. Kungcono ukhuluma ngalokho unesithakazelo, yena uthanda ukuchitha yokuzilibazisa isikhathi sabo, okuyinto ukhetha ukuba baphumule. Akubalulekile ukubuza imibuzo ukuthi kucatshangwa ukuthi monosyllabic izimpendulo. Kungenjalo, ingxoxo, uyawuba njengemfundzisi ukuhlonywa imibuzo.

Okwesine, ungalungisa ezinye izindaba ezithakazelisayo kusukela ukuphila. Life kungaba nabangane nabantu obajwayele, into esemqoka ukuthi bangabafokazi funny futhi okuthakazelisayo. Khona-ke ungesabi kwanoma iyiphi zikhawu engeyinhle, ngoba ungahlala isikulufa up indaba.

Fifthly, kubalulekile ukuba azame ukwenza isikhipha uhlu lwezihloko ezingase zithakazelise ukukhuluma nawe kanye intombazane. Ngokwesibonelo, ku- izenzakalo simbe lothando lokuqala, mayelana namazwe lapho sithanda vakashela, mayelana kwezinkanyezi show ibhizinisi, we ezifuywayo nokunye.

Okwesithupha, uma ungazi kanjani ukuxhumana intombazane ke ukuqala kuyinto ukubheka ukuphila kwakho siqu. Ingabe ezithakazelisayo? kungaba ngokugcwele izenzakalo? Phela, ugaye isihloko, okungekho lutho esingaba igama lakhe, kunzima kakhulu. Uma ungakwazi ukuthola umsebenzi othile kukarisa singenza okuthile wokuzilibazisa, ukuya yaseshashalazini, cinema, amakilabhu, ufunde kabanzi lenemaciniso nasezindabeni eziqanjiwe. Akubalulekile ukuba ibulale Inthanethi kanye kusofa nge-TV. Ungakwazi phuma nabangani on ukushibilika eqhweni kule NgoLwesihlanu kusihlwa, kulandele iwayini mulled esikhungweni ezinhle, ngoMgqibelo ukuphuma ukuthatha izithombe zezindawo ezinhle nabantu abajabulisayo kusihlwa ukuya club entsha ngeSonto ngoba kwesizini. Believe me, bese ngoMsombuluko ngeke kudingeke othi awube, sokuthula uzama ukuqonda indlela ukuxhumana intombazane, yini ukuba sikhulume naye. Enough umumeme ukwabelana nomlingani wakho, ngilandisa evamile yokuchitha isizungu othakazelisayo.

Uma ukuqomisana empilweni yangempela awunaso isikhathi noma awunayo alinge ukuhlangabezana bese ukhuluma kungaqhamuka intombazane enhle, ungakwazi uqale ukuxoxa ku-intanethi. Akukho okubi ngakho ukuzwa (noma kunalokho, ukufunda) kuchithwa, ungakwazi ukubuka izithombe intombazane, funda imigomo izithakazelo zayo.

Uma ungazi kanjani ukuxhumana VKontakte intombazane noma ezinye ukuxhumana nomphakathi, baqonde into eyodwa: kubalulekile ukuba nesizotha kanye yasekuqaleni. Akekho unesithakazelo amanzi ahlanzekile, "sawubona", "unjani", "ake sokumazi." Ungabuka uhlu movie ozithandayo noma izincwadi zakho intombazane bathi ukuthi ufundile / wabukela umsebenzi kulezi zinsuku futhi ungathanda ukuxoxisana. Ungakhohlwa ukwenza izincomo, kodwa ilungile futhi avulekile. Khumbula ukuthi ukubambezeleka ukuxhumana virtual akudingekile, ngoba awukwazi ukuya emhlanganweni langempela. Kungcono emva ezimbili kusihlwa inkhulumomphendvulwano benana ifoni futhi wenze i-aphoyintimenti.