Indlela ukuphendula ngamazwi ukweyisa buzz: izincomo

Ngesinye isikhathi empilweni kwenzeka isimo uma une ukuzwa kusuka angamazi nhlobo, noma, kunalokho, abathandekayo izitatimende ezingehli kahle eziphathelene, ukumangalelwa, wokuhlekwa usulu. Yini efika engqondweni yakho uma ubhekene nesimo esinjena? Yiqiniso, isifiso ukumisa Colca ibinzana ephendula. Ngimbonga ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele wenze, bese kanjani ukuphendula Zihlazisa amazwi ezihlakaniphile, sizobheka kulesi sihloko.

Yiziphi izinhlobo ukuhlukunyezwa khona, nokuthi ukuyiphendula?

1. Ukuthukwa efomini anolaka (inhlamba, inhlamba). Ngingakabi uphendula omunye ephathini ukuthi wena obala luhlaza lokho futhi liluhlaza, ukucabanga, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kufanele nimphendule kanjani ngisho kuye? Ngemva kokuphendula kuye ngendlela efanayo, uthola phansi ezingeni lakhe. Indlela aphendule ukuthuka amazwi buzz? Esimweni esinjalo, kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukuba ngomoya ophansi futhi ubande uma ukhuluma naye wabeka umuntu kuyo leyo ndawo futhi uchithe noma yimuphi ukukloloda ngaye.
2. Inhlamba, kufihlwe ngemuva buso Isimanga (ukukloloda). Indlela ukuphendula ngamazwi ukweyisa buzz kulesi simo? On yokuklolodelwa kudingeka bahlangabezane efanayo. Ngokwesibonelo:

Interlocutor: Ikhona into ungenalo ngempela uzowunakekela wahlala emsebenzini kuze 10.00 ntambama.

Wena: Siyabonga ukukhathazeka kwakho, kodwa wena ube wazi, ushiye izolo emsebenzini ngesikhathi, futhi umbono une nokho abanye rumpled futhi okungekuhle.

izincomo Jikelele

Sihlangane nabantu, nijabhise abanye, bagomela ngokwabo, kungenzeka noma kuphi nanoma nini. Kuyinto njalo kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi usabela kanjani ukuthuka. Ngezansi, sinikeza uhlu amacebiso jikelele ukukusiza aphume yimuphi inkhulumomphendvulwano ngingakhululeki ziyaphuma enqobile:

• Yiba ngobuchule kuka umuntu ekucasula. Akumele sime ezingeni elifanayo nomuntu ngaphezu amazwi ahlabayo futhi amahlaya abasazi lutho futhi ungafuni ukwazi;
• Uma umlingani wakho waphakamisa izwi lakhe nganoma yini, khona-ke noma kunjalo, musa umemeze emuva kuye. Kuyoba kuphela izinkinga isimo anikhuphule ukuzimelela, okuyinto cishe, futhi ufuna;
• sonke banamalungelo afanayo, futhi ngeke sikwazi ukukhuluma nomunye noma yini esifuna ukuyishintsha;
• ungakhohlwa ukuthi umuntu uzama Sukani niphume ngokwakho noma ubuhlungu amazwi, okufanelekelayo kuphela isihawu;
• funda indlela vala imizwa. Kwezinye izimo, ingqondo abandayo futhi nizithibe namanje inhliziyo kangcono futhi ubudlova;
• mawungathuli. Uma wathinta ubuwena, udinga ukuphendula noma kunjalo. Kungenjalo, wena engozini umxhwele indoda-amanikiniki;
• nalabo bantu nabo ungakazithathi ukuba iyiphi indlela ukuxhumana, kungcono wokuvimba nentshiseko yabo nakakhulu, ukucabanga kusengaphambili ukuthi ukungabi enjalo yokuvinjelwa kudingeka aphendule kuwe esikhathini esizayo;
• Uthanda wena zinakekele! Kungakhathaliseki noma ubani ethi kini, ukuphila kwakho kusukela kulesi neze zizoshintsha.

Indlela ukuphendula ngamazwi ukweyisa-buzz? Ziningi izindlela ngokwengqondo. Okuhamba phambili kwe-kubo kuyoba amahlaya. Lapha nge ukumamatheka umuntu ozama ukukwenzisa ukukulimaza ngamazwi noma ukuthukwa ngokuthuka. Wena ukucisha ke abuye futhi asindise yakho ezinzwa njengoba yayinjalo.

Sesihlole njengoba impendulo yamasiko begcina. Sithemba ukuthi lezi amathiphu kuyokusiza!