Indlela ukuhlela ingane enkulisa - inkinga abazali yesimanje

Esigabeni esilandelayo ingane yakho esakhula - isenzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwengane nabazali bakhe. Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi kwakungekhona eside kusukela, lapho pipsqueak amanga nje ukuthutha, bese bafunda ahlale, wathatha isinyathelo sakhe sokuqala, wathi igama eliwumlingo "mama".

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane iba akancikile kwabanye, ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo, andisa ingqondo. Futhi-ke, ekugcineni, kuza isikhathi lapho ingane kuyadingeka ukwethula ku umphakathi - ukuchaza kuye zasenkulisa. Futhi zingaba khona inkinga, ngoba indlela ukuhlela ingane enkulisa namuhla kungaba nzima ngempela.

Yini kungaba isithiyo? Eyokuqala - ukuntuleka ukutholakala kule izinkulisa wesifunda. Phakathi nale minyaka eyishumi iminyaka isimo lokubala ubuningi babantu ezweni, siyambonga uhulumeni umsebenzi wenzeke iye yathuthuka kakhulu. Abazali abaningi, sithembele ukuxhaswa okuvela embusweni ixazululwe ngesikhathi kokuzalwa kwengane yakho. Kodwa bambalwa abantu esikhawini sokuhlela kanye nokukhulelwa ngokwayo ecabanga ngobunzima zingenzeka ukufika ingane nursery noma enkulisa, ngokungazi ucabanga ukuthi kungaba okwanele ukuba alobe ingane esikhungweni Ukhethe ukudlula lapho ngihlolwa futhi bathole isitifiketi kunesidingo. Ngakho ungakwazi balinde ukuze lapho ingeke ibe khona isikhathi sokuya esikoleni. Ngisho noma indawo futhi kukhona, kulesi simo, kungase ukuvimbela ukusabalala kokuqala engadini ezweni lethu ohlelweni ukufunjathiswa. Futhi indlela ukuhlela ingane enkulisa abazali ezezimali okuyinto "sicule izingoma"? Ungazama alwe ukufumbathisa ezihilela umthetho, ungamukela akunakugwenywa, futhi ulinda isikhathi sakho - uku lucky mhlawumbe, kodwa ungazama ukuhlela Daycare ekhaya. Inketho yokugcina inikeza ithuba elihle futhi ngokwezimali ondle umkhaya wakhe, kodwa ngeshwa, umthetho ukukhipha isikhungo esifanayo kuleli zwe kuze kube manje, ngeke zisebenze. Lokhu kungenziwa ngokungemthetho kuphela noma ephuma kabili ngokomthetho ngokukhipha isikole ekhaya nursery njengenhlangano, ofeza ezokungcebeleka zezingane kanye nokungcebeleka.

Ngaphambi abanye omama kanye obaba embuzweni nendlela ukuhlela ingane enkulisa, asivelanga. Ngokwesibonelo, i- imindeni emikhulu nezingane ezintathu noma ngaphezulu, kungenzeka ukwakha enkulisa umndeni-run ngesisekelo kamasipala. Ngesikhathi esifanayo nomama ongahlala ngayo ezifana inhlangano njengoba uthisha, kanye nezingane zakhe - iqembu okungase eyayihambisana sinezinye izingane ezimbili ze-non-lwendabuko. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi, ngaphezu ukusekelwa ngokwezimali, unina icala futhi ukusebenza isipiliyoni.

Ngakho-ke, cabanga indlela ukuhlela ingane enkulisa, kumele eside ngaphambi indlalifa wena. Udinga ukwazi ukuthi izinto ume nge izindawo izinkulisa kamasipala, ucacise ngasiphi sikhathi ingane zingabekwa uhlu ukulinda, futhi uma kubonakala ukukhanya - hhayi uyephuza icala. Bese ungakwazi sithokomale futhi eqiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyoba ilunga eliphelele iqembu izingane ngaphambi kwesikhathi kungenzeka.