Yomhobholo: kuyini?

izici ngokwengqondo umuntu njalo ososayensi nesithakazelo futhi bebelokhu isihloko ucwaningo oluningana. Enye yezinto eziqine enomthelela ungubani umuntu nobuhlobo bakhe nabanye - yomhobholo. Kuyini lokhu isici umthelela it has, indlela yokunqoba ke? Izimpendulo zale mibuzo ziyoba curious ubani nesithakazelo Psychology nokuzinaka bona.

Egocentrism kubhekwe isici psyche wabantu, akakwazi futhi engafuni ukwamukela yomunye umlandi abona ngayo izinto uzibeka isitha sakho. Egomaniac enqaba ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi abanye abantu banelungelo lokuba umbono wabo siqu, futhi ucabanga ukuthi kuyafaneleka. Egocentrism yokucabanga zezingane - into yemvelo izingane 5-10 ubudala. ucwaningo eziningi olwenziwa nezingane walonyaka, khombisa abasakwazi ukubona izwe ngakolunye uhlangothi, cabanga ukuthi into libukeka kanje uhlangothi. Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, lesi sici sisese eseluphele ukhulile. Emikhayeni eminingi, futhi phakathi kwabantu okuvamile babe ofiphele. Kusho ukuthini? indoda I abazicabangela bona, kuyamthinta abanye futhi kuthatha konke ngokusebenzisa iphrizimu imibono yabo siqu.

Abantu abaphethwe egocentrism, uzizwa sengathi maphakathi nezwe, bacabanga ukuthi konke kugxile kuzo futhi izithakazelo zabo. Imbangela ezivame kakhulu salokhu ukufundisa nokuzitika bonke emkhayeni somuntu ingane. Kusukela umntwana esewusana Ufika esetshenziswa ukunakwa eyengeziwe abantu abadala futhi ikakhulukazi abazali. Kancane kancane uyaqaphela ukuthi kukhona izindlela ezithile ezingathinta abantu abadala bese uzithola ukufeza zonke izifiso. Njengoba bekhula, lesi sici aluphumeleli, bese uba aqinile. Isidingo ukunakwa awanakufundwa ikhaya nothando lwabazali. Ingane ufuna ukuba isikhungo ukunakwa enkulisa noma esikolweni, egcekeni kanti kule nkampani. Kancane kancane lezi zidingo ukhule ifomu eyinqaba self-ukugomela, lapho ngisho uthando kuyinto ukubenza abakho wedwa eqala kuhlale muntu ogcwele. Futhi egocentrism izalwa. Kusho ukuthini lokhu ngekusasa yokuphila komuntu? Ukungabi okuthuthuka ngokomoya futhi waba nesihluku kwabanye, ukungakwazi ukusungula ubudlelwano ngobuqotho esisekelwe endleleni aqonda mutual nothando.

Ukunqoba egocentrism iqala ukuqaphela komuntu inkinga kanye nesifiso ukunqoba it. Ikhono baqonde ukuthi wonke umuntu uhlukile, wonke umuntu umbonwabo futhi ilungelo ukuvikela izinzuzo zalo siqu, unikezwa nesikhathi esinzima. Kodwa kuyisinyathelo endaweni efanele. Imikhaya eminingi, imibhangqwana kanye nabalingani agcinwa ngendlela nobuhlobo babo, okuyinto waya wokugoqa ngenakugwemeka we ngokungaqondi nokuzimisela ukubheka isimo ngaphesheya.

imfundo Ofanele ingane ikwazi ukuvimbela i-self-ukumuncwa. Kusho ukuthini lokhu ku umongo nombono wanamuhla umzali? Kuleli zwe kwavela amathuba amahle kakhulu nabazali zokuvumela noma kubalulekile ukuze abonise le ingane ukubaluleka ukwethembana phakathi kwabantu, ngokusekelwe ukuphana nokuqonda.