Unqobe Fear

Fear - omdala we kuluthola imiphi imizwa yabantu. Kanjani ukuba banqobe ukwesaba? Lo mbuzo ubuzwa eziningi odokotela, odokotela bengqondo nezinye izingcweti sihlaziye ubuhlobo umuntu umphakathi. Empeleni, ngalo mqondo akukho lutho olungalungile, kuba yokwesaba ukuthi kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuba zigweme ukwenza izinto okungafanele. Nokho, ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukwesaba ngokweqile kungenza kube nomkhawulo ukuphila komuntu kanzima, okwamphoqa ukuba onkom 'idla yodwa. Ikakhulu ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi alinge isenzo abanesibindi ngokuzibophezela uya isiphetho nenkinga enkulu, hhayi kahle ukushintsha izimo. Ngaphambi ukuqeda ukwesaba, udinga ukwamukela ke, ukuvuma yena ukuthi ine. Ukwesaba ngokuvamile izithiyo engqondo evelayo ngenxa yezinkinga ezithile yasekhaya. Lokhu kuboniswa ngokucacile kungase kutholakale by yokuthi ngamunye ngumnikazi.
Manje, kukhona izindlela eziphumelelayo zokunqoba ukwesaba. Njenganoma yimuphi isitha, ukwesaba odinga isimo sengqondo wemfanelo. Kunezindlela eziningana ezilula kodwa okuhle ukwesaba okuthile. Zama ukushintsha icala lacabanga, ngezinye izikhathi kuba lula ukwenza okuthile kwanhlobo. Isikhathi esiningi ukwesaba ezenza engajabule kithi, ngenxa yabo ukuzinyeza uyazi. Ukwandisa izinga ukuzethemba kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuba akhohlwe imibuzo, okuyinto isabonakala zingangentaba. Khulisa ukuzethemba kungenzeka ebe egxile imigomo emihle. Okusho ukuthi, uma umuntu usebenzela isici eqinile, ukhohlwa ababuthakathaka, ukuziqaphela uqobo kuyothuthuka, okuyokwenza ukuqeda ukwesaba eziningi. Omunye uye kuphela ukuba zihileleke kulokho ifinyelela umphefumulo. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, ke wathola ukuthi disfavour inhliziyo into kuholela yokuthi umuntu angase ingajabuli kuphela. Ngokuphambene, samuntu izinhlelo zabo kususa ukwesaba awayiphazamisi, ikunika amandla, injabulo, ukukhanyiselwa. Ukuqeda yokwesaba - nezinkinga ezijulile siqu, ngenxa yalokhu, nendlela yokubhekana Kufanele kukhethwe ngamunye. Ngaphambi ukuqeda ukwesaba, zibuze - okwesabayo, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wesabe lokhu. Nakuba abantu abaningi akuyona kokwesaba, kungani ufuna ukuba isigqila izinzwa. Kufanele wafunda ngokuningiliziwe enkulu yalokhu umuzwa, ukuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela unokuzisola - ukwenza isenzo uqobo, noma akayitholi umphumela? Uma yokwesaba libhekene, ngoba yini okwakuyodingeka ukuba banqobe ukwesaba, ungakwazi udlulele isenzo sesibili - ukuthuthukiswa isibindi. Generation of isibindi kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuba balahle okuthiwa ukukhathazeka bokusungula. Ezemfundo sesibindi lifana ukuqeqeshwa ezemidlalo. Kufanele uqale ukususa ukwesaba kancane, kancane seziqala okukhulu. Ekugcineni besusa esiyingozi kakhulu. Ukuze uzwisise indlela ukwesaba, kubalulekile ukuba abantu beveza zokwelapha le nkinga.
Ukuze wazi ukuthi yini ngempela ufuna, kufanele babheke ngokucophelela ukuba bawalandele, okwenza ayebatshele zona ahlukahlukene. Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, inkomba kakhulu imizwa ekwenzeni izinqumo ezifanele. Basuke baphokophelele isinyathelo, okuyinto ikakhulukazi kuyaphikisana yini enengqondo.