Umkhuleko wocela uthando - indlela engcono kakhulu ukuhlela impilo yakho siqu

"... ngamthola othandwa ngumphefumulo wami;,
Ngathatha kuye hhayi nimyeke ahambe,
kwaze kwaba yilapho sengithathe wamngenisa endlini kamama ... ".
"Ingoma Yezingoma"

Thina ingene kulo izwe ngenxa yothando

Wonke umuntu oza kuleli zwe lidinga uthando. Man - a kokuba engaphansi kakhulu ukukhanya ngokuphelele zokuphila ukuthi ibizwa ngokuthi uthando. Okokuqala, kusukela kakhulu ngomzuzu wokukhulelwa kwakhe, uyakulangazelela simenze kude nabazali nesimo esiphuthumayo: amalungu omndeni, izihlobo, abangane. Ukukhulela, uyaqaphela ukuthi udinga uthando lomunye umuntu. Lolu thando luyisisusa ezahlukene: hhayi friendly, hhayi uyise-umama, hhayi anobuhlobo, ehluke ngokuphelele ... Uthando ngokuphelele sihambi ngokuba ngubani oyoba uyavumelana ukuphila kwabo siqu. Lapha kulesi sikhathi umuntu abona kutsi ukuboshwa nje kuphela ukwamukela uthando, ukulungele ukunikeza yena (ngoba uthando - akuthathi futhi uthathe abuye anikeze futhi ukunikeza) futhi bajabule kusukela kule.

Indlela ukucinga uthando futhi kungani umthandazo uthando?

Yini umuntu omdala, lapho azizwa isidingo sothando, kodwa akaboni endaweni yakhe, indoda bathande futhi abazongikhuthaza kuyahambisana ngokusebenzisa ukuphila? Sidinga ukukubuza yonke kumuntu onjalo. Iqiniso lokuthi esikucabangayo impahla - Sekuyisikhathi eside i iqiniso obungenakuphikwa. Lokhu kufakazelwa isayensi (ikakhulukazi Psychology), zonke izinkolo, amafilosofi nezinkolo tinhlobo letehlukene ulwazi zanqwabelana yisintu Sekuyizinkulungwane zeminyaka, ufunde kanje: uma umuntu efuna kakhulu into intethelelo, uyaqiniseka ukuthi uthole lokho okufunayo. Ngalesi eyakhelwe lonke ulwazi imilingo, lithi uJesu eTestamenteni Elisha: ngqongqothani, khona kuzovula, zibuze futhi uzonikezwa. Kanjani ukuze sicele uthando? It kuncike ngubani ubuza, okwakuphume kuye ufuna ukuthola uthando, futhi ukuba isicelo sakho. Ingabe ufuna ukuthola uthando abanothando lemimoya amabutho ahlukahlukene engaziwa, ukusebenzisa iziphonso futhi amabika. Yini-ke nika? Endabeni engcono - lutho. Esikhathini okubi kakhulu - amabutho elingaziwa ukuthola okuthile okungaziwa, kuyobe sekuba i-ukubhekana naso ngokwabo, kodwa nakoMoya nhlobo ngabomvu okuthile okuhle ngokwakho ... Kungcono futhi eziqinile zonke - sicele usizo kuNkulunkulu, okungukuthi, umcele umthandazo. Udinga umthandazo uthando.

Yini badinga umkhuleko mayelana nothando?

Ekuvikeleni imimoya emibi evela ngiyajabula ukungashadi nezinye amaqhinga anjalo umona angaphandle kanye inzondo kudingeka funda iHubo 90. Funda ke kumele ngokuvamile 1 isikhathi ngosuku, noma okungenani isikhathi esingu-1 ngesonto. Lokhu kuzosiza ukususa nokucabanga ethintekile umonakalo, uma ikhona, futhi ukuvikela ukuhlaselwa ezintsha. Khetha umthandazo uthando encwadini yomthandazo, nofana angakhulumi ngamazwi akho. Umkhuleko has imithandazo umshado for girls ngoba amadoda. Ngingathanda ukuba nilalele yokuthi ngeke uthole kukhona ezifana umthandazo uthando yomuntu, noma umthandazo ngenxa yothando sentombazane. Thanda indlela abobulili obuhlukile ngaphandle komshado akubhekwa njengesono. Ukucela uthando olunjalo, yebo, awukwazi uNkulunkulu. Ngakho sina nodaba ubumfihlo, kubalulekile ukubuza ngomshado. Nobani, UNkulunkulu uyosibonisa wena. Ukuze wenze lokhu, wena kuye nokusebenzisa. Thembela KuNkulunkulu kufanele kube, ngolimi lwanamuhla, ngokwakhona. Nakani umthandazo uthando:

• UJehova uNkulunkulu ukuba amantombazane mayelana nomshado ophumelelayo
• Blessed Virgin Mary
• Saint Matrona eMoscow
• Nikolayu Chudotvortsu somshado
• uBarbara
• Xenia Petersburg

Kukhona futhi umthandazo emangalisayo ongumKatolika St kaJosefa umyeni omuhle. Enye into enhle ukucela umama ukuba bathandazele Catherine indodakazi umkhwenyana ezinhle. umthandazo nal inamandla kakhulu futhi ngempumelelo.

Wazi kanjani ikusasa lakho?

Kokubili abesilisa nabesifazane, uma umuntu lapho, ukuze siqinisekise ukuthi ukuthi umuntu oyedwa wathumela ukudalelwa ukuphila, kuyasiza kakhulu ukuthi ikhuleke lumkhuleko: Nkosi, ngiyawubeka kuwe ubuhlobo bami (igama umuntu). Uma Ukuze bazuze kimi, ake ke (yena) kuyoba umkami (umyeni wakho). Uma lena ndoda, konke uya emshadweni - uma not owahlukana. Kulokhu, ungazami ukubuyela lowo muntu. Nkulunkulu ngoba ngokucacile wathi - akusiyo eyakho.

Kanjani ukuba bathandazele uthando?

UNkulunkulu akanandaba nokuthi ungalusebenzisa kanjani ukuthandaza, yilokho okushoyo. Into esemqoka - ukuthi uzizwa. Uyalibona inhliziyo yakho futhi ubone konke ufuna ukusho. Ngakho zama ukuyibeka ngamazwi imicabango yami eqotho nemicabango ukwenza ehlanzekile, kwasekuqaleni ukuba yena. Ngoba, onjengawo, cela yonke inhliziyo yakho nangawo wonke amacebo akhe, bese kufezeke. Uma ufuna uthando, kufanele wazi futhi uqonde Hlobo luni lothando. Futhi alungele uphendula umuzwa wena? Ngifuna, kodwa angazi incazelo lokho okukhulu: ungafuni ukwenza, noma - Nginesizungu, ngifuna adventure. Khumbula, uma umkhumbi akazi lapho ukuya khona, kungekho umoya ohambisana kuye. Yiba happy othandweni.