Indlela enhle ukuthumela Man: A Kwesiqondiso Esiwusizo

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abesifazane abaningi babhekana nenkinga: indlela ukuthumela umfana enhle? Futhi Inkulumo esemqoka lapha ithi "enhle" ngoba ukuthumela okuhlambalazayo kanye bakudala Man - kalula. Kodwa kungani-ke? Konke zingaxazululwa ngendlela impucuko, futhi ukudabuka of ubudlelwano kuhlanganise. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi kudingekile ukuba ngithume iNdoda kwamasiko, ubudlelwane nabo wayengasekho, kodwa wayesesendaweni kubo bemagange. Lesi sihloko - liyisiqondiso esiwusizo sendlela ukuthumela kahle nsizwa.

Ngakho, uma ubuhlobo njengogaxekile, nomfana wayengekho, kodwa ngokuphikelela wabonisa uzwela yayo kanye Amacebo ukuthi kuyoba mnandi ukuba ukuya ubuhlobo obuseduze ngokwengeziwe, ukuthi ilungile ukuchaza ukuthi ubuhlobo akukwazi eyodwa yezindlela ezilandelayo.

Ngo umuntu ukutshela mayelana ibinzana esilandelayo: "Wena ungumuntu kakhulu umuntu omuhle, uqinisekile bayokwazisa enye intombazane. Nje - hhayi indoda yami ".. Le ndlela kufanelekile uma umuntu ngokuvamile, liziphathe ngokukhalipha, kodwa akaqondi ukuthi imizamo yakhe wena enkingeni.

Uma insizwa akaqondi imishwana ilungile futhi aluziphathi ngempela ngokwanele ke ungafaka isicelo hhayi ngempela izindlela "ezithakazelisayo". Ngokwesibonelo, ezifana.

• Ungaphenduli obizweni lwakhe, bese uyaphindela ehoreni lesithathu lasebusuku, kwi-aphoyintimenti akuveli, noma ubuye sekwephuzile amahora amabili, futhi ngisho nehlazo isihloko nakulokho akhetha ukuhlangabezana indawo embi kanje lapho bahluleka uthole.
• Ungase futhi zidinga izipho umnumzana ngokusobala engingeke ngikwazi ukuyikhokhela, isibonelo, amnandi yahtochku kancane!
• Ungakwazi namanje umeme umnumzana ecasulayo kulezo zivakashi zakhe, futhi iningi uhambe, eshiya kweqembu nezintombi, abazama ukuchaza kumuntu abasha Isimo sakho sengqondo maqondana nalo.
• Ziphatheni ukuze Admirer kwaba ihlazo kuwe: isibonelo, ehlezi etafuleni endaweni cafe, kakhulu ohlabayo ekhaleni lakhe ukukhwehlela. Kodwa kuphela uma asesabi idumela lakhe.
• Ngazo zonke izindlela akwenzeki ukubonisa khona izinqwaba abalandeli ukuthi kusolakala ukuthi esimweni ubudlelwano: naye ukubabiza, thumela i-SMS, ungakwazi uthintane ngisho nomuntu Cavalier ezingemnandi: "Ucabanga ukuthi kufanele ube vase ukuthi ngikwazisa kakhulu ufuna, noma yini engiyifunayo kakhulu - kakhulu - ngempela? Futhi lokho Pete ukubhala? ".
• On usuku, ungakwazi beveza ugogo.
• Ungaxoxa wedwa a Knight, njengoba enhle ukuthumela nsizwa, bese ziqala ukusebenzisa izithelo lokhu "umkhandlu" practice efanayo.

Nakhu ukuthi uthumele guy enhle! Yiqiniso, izwi elithi "enhle" kufanele ocashunwe! Cishe, ngezinye zalezi zindlela izosebenza, kanye umnumzana ngeke ngikushiye wedwa.

Nzima uma ubuhlobo kuwukuthi kakade lapho, kodwa umthwalo kuwe, futhi kumelwe naphula. Lapha, yebo, kumelwe sithathe isinyathelo kutebuncusa ohlabayo kuka esimweni sokuqala. Kubalulekile uzinqumela - ngabe ufuna ukushiya unomphela ukuze uqhubeke ukugcina ubudlelwano noma ufuna ukuzama ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle enobungane. Uma kukhona isifiso ukuxhumana ngaphezulu, ukuhlukana kufanele azame ngangokunokwenzeka ukukwehlisela futhi yokuthumela kwamasiko Man. Kukhona ezinye umehluko wemisindo nemiqondo yamagama ukuthi kufanele kucatshangelwe ngaphambi ukuthumela umfana enhle.

1) Oku-kudingekile ukuyiprakthiza ngokuzwakalayo amagama, uzilalele sengathi kusukela ngaphandle.

2) Kuyinto kudingekile ukukhetha ukuthi ulondoloza endaweni efanele ngoba ingxoxo juqu. Lokhu arcade kwenziwa kwi "kokungathathi hlangothi" ababizwa nangokuthi uhulumeni. Ngokwesibonelo, endaweni cafe (kodwa hhayi ukuthi okuyinto lihlotshaniswa zikhathi romantic), noma epaki. Ukuze aqhube ingxoxo ekhaya noma ekhaya lakhe bengayi, kanye emsebenzini.

3) wathi zibe nobulungisa kakhulu. Lokhu akusho kufanele usitshele konke unganelisekile nalo, kodwa ukusho ukuthi uphelele, futhi le nto ifanelekile ungeyena zinkulu. Ungakwazi, isibonelo, bathi ubuhlobo bakho ayisekho "umlilo," ubudala noma ukuthi awukwazi ukunika umuntu omusha imizwa nezimo zengqondo, okuyinto emfanele futhi ubunzima.

Uma le nsizwa namanje ukunikela ucabanga ungasiphuli off ubudlelwane, futhi ucabanga ngakho sebekubeke engafuni, like lutho idolo kuye, khona-ke singasho ibinzana, okuyinto ncamashi anqande isifiso Cavalier kutsi bachubeke nebuhlobo, "Ngaqaphela ukuthi namanje ke, efana ex-isoka. " Yiqiniso, ezingemnandi, kodwa eziphumelelayo.