Okufanele ukwenze nge ubugovu zezingane

Ubugovu - lokhu ingenye yezimbangela ezinkulu intukuthelo ngokweqile, ukwedelela izama ukumisa nokulawula okugcwele, kanye nokufutheka angabonisa yonke ingane. odokotela bengqondo abaningi bathi le ubugovu bungesinye empandeni Ezimweni eziningi yentukuthelo izingane. ubugovu babo ngokuvamile kuholela ukucindezeleka engathí sina abazali, izingane zakwabo ontanga, kokubili esikoleni futhi nangale. Kubalulekile ukukhomba lokhu kuziphatha ingxabano, kodwa lokhu akubi abazali njalo kalula zikhuluma ngentukuthelo ngokweqile ezinganeni zabo. Ngeshwa, ukuzazisa ngokuvamile ngisho kubhekwe njengendlela imbangela intukuthelo ngokweqile futhi ubonisa ukuziphatha ukushayela izingane. Bavame ngephutha ukuthi nginesifo ADHD, okungukuthi, ukungakwazi ukugxilisa ingqondo hyperactivity sifo, njengoba beziphatha wenza ngokuxhamazela, ukuthi eqinisweni kungenxa yokuthi abazi bathole abakufunayo, futhi lapho benganikezwa ukunakekelwa ezikudingayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufutheka elihlobene ne ubugovu, lungase lube lukhulu ngokwengeziwe ukuze lezi zingane zingase ukuxilonga ngisho ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuguquguqukayo. Kususelwa engaphezu kwamashumi amane nakho ekwelapheni ngempumelelo intukuthelo ngokweqile ezinganeni nakubantu abadala, singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi ubugovu ngaso sonke isikhathi kudingeka ukuba sicabangele kuqala kunazo zonke lapho ozama ukuqonda isizathu enjalo intukuthelo ukushuba ingane yakho, ikakhulu lowo ubonisa wawubonakalisa kakhulu ukuziphatha odelelayo futhi ongaphenduki intukuthelo.

Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Ngenhlanhla, kunezinyathelo ezithile ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze ulungise lesi simo sengqondo buthakathaka ingane yakho, futhi kuba kubo Kuzoxoxwa. Indima yabazali ibaluleke kakhulu ukuvikela abantwana, imikhaya ngisho lonke isiko ethonyeni elilimazayo yobugovu. Ukuze kuzuzwe umphumela omuhle, abazali kufanele asebenzise wemfanelo umzali isitayela, hhayi kwandile, kodwa kuyalimaza kakhulu isitayela evelele.

ukuqashelwa ubugovu

Ukuhlolwa ukuziphatha olukhombisa zezimpi elihlobene ne ubugovu, kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoba izingane eziningi kanye nabantu abadala bezama kufihlwa noma baze ngisho baphika ke. Ngoba lokhu kuyiso wusizo kuwe ohlwini, okuyinto ikuvumela uhlole indlela eqinile nobugovu ingane yakho. Lolu hlu kusekelwe iminyaka engamashumi amane isipiliyoni emitholampilo, kanye ezihlukahlukene ezincwadini zesayensi.

ukuqonda inkinga

Sibheke amaphuzu efakwe ohlwini futhi ukukhomba labo afanele ingane yakho. Ungaphinde ucele ingane yakho ikwazi ukusebenza ngokuzimela nge kulolu hlu. Ukuqonda inkinga umuntu ukuzazisa athuthukile neze sihamba kalula, futhi ukusabela ejwayelekile imizamo ukhombe ubugovu yomuntu - lokhu abamukeli. Lolu hlu kuzokusiza izingane unqobe esigabeni ukuphika, ikakhulukazi uma bekwazi ukukhuluma ngezinkinga nabazali.

uhlu

• Ukuntuleka kwenhlonipho abazali.
• Ukungakwazi ukubonga.
• A umuzwa onamandla ukuthi ubophekile.
• Izenzo ukulawula imizamo.
• Inhlamvu embi.
• Ukusebenzisa ezinye izinto njengoba ngokobulili.
• Insensitivity maqondana namalungu omndeni kanye nontanga.
• ekhombisa ngokweqile sentukuthelo, lapho izinto zingahambi kahle.
• sloppiness eqinile.
• ukusetshenziswa njalo kolimi oluyinhlamba.
• Ukungabi yokuphana, ukungafuni ukwabelana.
• ulindele izinto ezingenangqondo ukwelashwa okukhethekile kokubili.
• Ilinde ukuhambisana othomathikhi zonke izidingo.
• Izikhundla.
• Ukusebenzisa amanye ukuthola ofiselekayo.
• Inzondo sezipho womhlatshelo.
• Ukwenqaba ukuhlanganyela abasemakilasini zeminyaka efanelekile.
• Zokungazimiseli nibhekane izidingo nezifiso zabanye.
• ukuziphatha Ozikhukhumezayo futhi abazidlayo.
• Ukuziphatha "ingane ichithekile".
• Standing isicelo ukuthi bonke wayelingana ncamashí afuna.
• Ukungakwazi nezidingo zabanye.
• Ukwenqaba ukwenza imisebenzi endlini.
• Image singenamandla, ukuthola oyifunayo (ngokukhethekile, isifo simulating).
• Imizamo ukunciphisa zonke izingxoxo ku-imvelaphi yabo.
• Ukugwema umthwalo.
• Disclaimer baziqoqele.
• Umbhikisho ngokwaso njengoba isisulu.
• Ukwenqaba ukufunda.
• Lapho izinto zingahambi kahle, kungcono njalo iphutha abanye.
• Isidingo ngokumthanda njalo.
• Ukuswelakala kokusebenza ngokuhlanganyela umphakathi abanye abantu.
• Inattention ukuba nabantu ingxoxo iqhutshwa.
• Lapho sithukwa noma udlame oluphathelene nomzimba olubhekiswe amalungu omndeni noma ontanga.
• Kabi utshwala noma izidakamizwa.

kuyinkinga ekhulayo

intukuthelo ngokweqile eba lapho abantu zanoma iyiphi iminyaka nale nobuthakathaka uhlamvu musa bathole abakufunayo ngokushesha futhi ngendlela abayifunayo kuwo. Singasho ukuthi zisabela ukugcizelela ngendlela akavuthiwe ngokomzwelo futhi uyingane.

cwaningo ubugovu

Kukhona inani elikhulu ezincwadini zesayensi ezingasiza abazali, othisha kanye nabafundisi ukuze baqonde zikhubazeke ukuthi kungadala Narcissism. Lapho, uyothola amathiphu ezibalulekile mayelana nendlela yokubhekana ubugovu, kanye okucacile ukuthi zidlala indima ebalulekile kulokhu, ukufunda amagugu efanele ekhaya esikolweni, kanye akhombe izimfanelo ezinjengokupha, kanye nophawu lokubonisa ukubumbana kutidzela. A 2007 Ucwaningo luveza nje makhulu kangakanani inkinga ka Narcissism emphakathini wanamuhla. Lolu cwaningo eyayihlanganisa abafundi abangaphezu kuka-17,000, futhi izingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu zawo waba ukusebenza eqinile ekuhlolweni yobugovu. Kwaphawulwa e imiphumela yocwaningo ukuthi ngezinsuku zokugcina engamashumi amabili, ezingeni yobugovu liye landa ngamaphesenti angu-30. Ochwepheshe uqaphele ukuthi daffodils esithambekele okuningi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi baziphathe ngobudlova bese uzama ukulawula abanye, futhi sibonise ukuthi ukungathembeki.

Ubugovu nezinye zengqondo

Ubugovu ubhekwa njengomunye yezinto eziyinhloko okubangela ukuziphatha esithukuthele izingane, okuyinto kulesi senzakalo ngokuvamile ukuthi nginesifo oppositional disorder abadelelayo (IAD). Uma kungenziwa kahle ezikhonjwe futhi isilungisiwe eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila, kungenzeka ukuvimbela okuvela kuyo nezinye kwezinso kamuva ekuphileni. Yingakho ukuhlolwa ezingeni yobugovu wengane kuyisici esibalulekile ekulweni intukuthelo ngokweqile kule amacala ukungakwazi ukugxilisa hyperactivity sifo, oppositional disorder abadelelayo, ukuziphatha disorder, ukuphazamiseka kwemizwelo dysregulation ngisho ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuguquguqukayo.

Umsuka ubugovu

imithombo Common zobugovu izingane yilezi:

• Ukwamukelwa ngamabomu izici ngenxa yesikhashana ethathwe ngemva kwakhe.
• Ubungane nabantu abangamesabi banobugovu kakhulu.
• Isifiso esijulile sokuthokozisa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi yonke into ihamba nje njengoba ufuna wena.
• Isifiso esijulile sokuthokozisa ukulawula abanye.
• Ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile zokuxhumana, kanye imiyalezo.
• Kukhathazeka ukujabulisa ontanga.
• Ukungakwazi abazali ukuba babhekane nezimo ukungqubuzana ukuziphatha kwengane.
• Ezemfundo, lapho konke kuvunyelwe.
• Ukumodela isibonelo abazali zobugovu.
• kokungenela ngokweqile abazali empilweni yengane.
• Ukungakwazi abazali ukuba bafundise ingane ikhodi zokuziphatha.
• isipiliyoni Sikhungo eligqugquzela ubugovu.
• Ukumodela Isibonelo ontanga zobugovu.
• Zokungazimiseli umhlatshelo okuthile ngenxa yabanye.
• izenzo kuphoqeleke elihlobene ne search for umuzwa induduzo.
• Ukuphikisa ikhodi zokuziphatha nezinkolelo zakhe.